Book excerpt: Creating God in our own image

Note: This is an excerpt from We Need to Talk, my book in progress, which examines the polarization ripping apart our society and shares my personal search for an appropriate Christian response. For an overview of the book and to read my previous excerpts, link HERE.

During my participation in Bible study groups, 12-Step meetings and spiritual direction sessions, I have frequently been encouraged to evaluate different concepts of God. Most discussions have tended to focus on a pair of competing images – Loving God versus Angry God.

The benevolent Loving God provides for our every need and wants us to love and care for each other. John 3:16 tells us God “so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

The Angry God of my childhood understanding, on the other hand, was a short-tempered bully who frankly hated people and regretted having created us. This ‘God’ reserved an especially hot place in you-know-where for kids who asked “Why?” when told by an adult to do something.

Critically evaluating the ideas we hold about God can be a valuable exercise. Many of us who grew up with the image of a perpetually angry and capricious bully have benefitted from advice often heard around the tables at 12-Step meetings: “It may be time to fire the ‘God’ of our childhood understanding and meet the real one.”

Lately, I’ve noticed another “God” wreaking havoc in the U.S.: The Culture Warrior God. This false god, I’ve come to believe, is responsible for fueling much of the toxic polarization in both our churches and our secular society.

CULTURE WARRIOR GOD appeals to our self-righteous instincts and our resentments, as well as our desire to fit in with peers. This god has many faces:

  • The god who plays favorites. Culture Warrior God favors one special group of people over all others, and – by some stroke of luck, coincidence or superior righteousness – the favored group just happens to be the group we belong to or identify with. This group may be our own church congregation or denomination. (Not to worry: Culture Warrior God assures us that members of those other denominations aren’t real Christians anyway.) But the favored group may also be a nation, a racial or ethnic group, a political party or followers of an ideological movement.
  • The god who dabbles in politics. Culture Warrior God just happens to be a card-carrying member of our own political party or ideological camp and – to make it easier for us to conflate our religious beliefs with our political agenda – has personally authored a creed that includes 650 boxes for us to check. We may suspect parts of the “creed” were developed by bending and twisting Biblical teachings until they conform to our political party’s platform. But if this editing process makes us nervous, it’s best not to say anything, lest we be cast into the outer darkness for eternity. Or canceled by our peers in Culture Warrior God’s chosen group. (Peer pressure is certainly not limited to junior high school.)
  • The god who hates Those People. Culture Warrior God encourages us to reject and condemn anyone who votes for the wrong candidate in an election, refuses to check every single one of the above-mentioned 780 boxes, or otherwise fails to look, act and think the way we do. One way to hold these nefarious transgressors accountable is to publicly call out their sins on a social media site such as Facebook or Twitter and invite others to pile on. Yes, we know the Bible says that all have sinned and fall short of God’s glory, and only those who haven’t sinned should cast stones. But Culture Warrior God assures us that Those People’s sins are WAY more egregious than our own. Besides, stone-casting helps signal to our peers how virtuous we are.
  • The god whose “messengers” mustn’t be questioned. If the leaders of Culture Warrior God’s chosen group say something is true, then it’s true. Period. Never mind if the Bible says something a bit different. We must never challenge even one of the 870 boxes we are asked to check as a condition of sitting at the popular kids’ table. (Ever notice how the number of boxes keeps growing? Best not to mention that little detail either.) Unlike the members of all those hundreds of other Christian denominations, we can trust we have the corner on the Ultimate Truth because Culture Warrior God has told us repeatedly our group is the only one that really “gets it.”

I HAVE TO ADMIT  that the contrarian in me often finds it easier to articulate what I don’t believe than to discern what I do believe. But I think I can safely say it’s time to fire the Culture Warrior God of our adult creation, right along with the Angry Bully God of our childhood nightmares.

What the many faces of Culture Warrior God add up to is a god created in our own image.

It’s tempting to believe this particular form of idolatry is limited to fringe cults like Westboro Baptist Church or white Christian nationalist movements. But if we’re completely honest, we must admit this thinking can pose a challenge for all of us, even if we identify ourselves with a traditional brand of Christianity such as mainline Protestant, Catholic, Evangelical, Pentecostal or Orthodox. And Culture Warrior God’s siren song can appeal to us whether we lean toward the conservative or progressive side of the political spectrum.

One problem is that many of us subconsciously anthropomorphize God – that is, give God human characteristics. (Does an elderly white man with a long beard and flowing robes come to mind?) We also tend to cherry-pick Biblical teachings that match our biases – whether intentionally or not – while reflexively ignoring those inconvenient passages that challenge our cherished worldview.

Given the combination of our human limitations and our human egos, is there a way for us not to create God in our own image, at least to some extent? Is there a way to avoid putting our own spin on Biblical teachings? How do we know when we – or the group we belong to – might be doing these things?

Here are some clues I’ve come to recognize as red flags:

  • When any belief system claims God favors one group of people exclusively. (If I’m interpreting Romans 10:12, Galatians 3:28 and Colossians 3:11 correctly, God does not favor any one group of people over any others.)
  • When God starts sounding too much like a conservative Republican, a progressive Democrat or a member of any other secular political party or ideological movement. (We’d do well to focus on following the Lamb, not an elephant or a donkey.)
  • When we secretly believe in our heart of hearts that our own little group of believers – out of the thousands in existence – is the only one that gets everything completely right.
  • When we choose our congregation based on how closely its interpretation of Biblical truth aligns with our political beliefs – or at least refrains from challenging them. (For the time is coming when people will not put up with sound doctrine,” warns 2 Timothy 4:3-4. “But having itching ears, they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own desires.”)
  • When a group or leader discourages questions. (A group whose leaders or truth claims can’t be scrutinized or challenged is not a religion – or even a legitimate political party or ideological movement. It’s a cult.)
  • When we feel a bit too much glee at the prospect of God punishing someone who doesn’t share our views. (A former pastor at my church once observed that some people take as much comfort in the idea of certain other peoples’ eternal damnation as they do in the idea of their own salvation.)
  • When God agrees with us on every single controversial issue and disapproves of all the same people we do. (This should be a dead giveaway.)
  • When a group hands us one of those lists titled “People God Hates.” (We can confidently pitch said list in the recycle bin. ’Nuff said.)

PERHAPS ONE ANTIDOTE to our tendency to create God in our own image is a dose of humility. While I do believe there is an Ultimate Truth, no mere human being, including me, will ever have a corner on it – at least not on this side of eternity. “For now we see through a glass darkly,” 1 Corinthians 13:12 reminds us.

We can also use the mind God gave us to develop our critical thinking skills. When people say we mustn’t question God’s will, I suspect what some of them really mean is, “Don’t question my interpretation of God’s will.” Whether or not we question God’s will, we can certainly question another human being’s interpretation of it. Sometimes this is exactly what we need to do.

If we want to take the first step toward healing the divisions in our churches and our larger society, we need to stop asking, “Is God on our side?” Instead, we need to ask, “Are we on God’s side?”

Question for readers: What helps you avoid the pitfall of creating God in your own image? I’d love to hear your response to this question, as well as your comments on the article. Just hit “Leave a Reply” below. When responding, please keep in mind the guidelines I’ve outlined on my Rules of Engagement page (link HERE).

20 thoughts on “Book excerpt: Creating God in our own image

  1. Seeing God and his point of view is via ‘Christ come in the flesh.’ He stooped to our level. God created HIMSELF in our image. ‘Made of a woman.’

    Jesus walked this earth exactly like we do. He stayed in the moment and mixed with the people that crossed his path. ‘God with us.’

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  2. This made me laugh a lot! Thank you. To answer your question is difficult. I read the bible with the requested help of the Holy Spirit, with whom I also pray and go about the business of each day. My aim is to follow wherever He leads and never to judge or reject anything that He gives to me. This leaves me too busy to waste much time on politics anyway. Good post – the book sounds great. What stage is it at? When is it due out?


  3. I cling to my understanding that Jesus was/is the Incarnation of God. I read about Him and see how he interacted with everyone. I read what He says. When I do that I feel that I have a good sense of God. Jesus Himself doesn’t look any one way, by the way. Right now in my mind he is a witty little Jewish guy. Other times he has different ethnicity in my mind. I don’t have a visual image of God and I never have had one. Perhaps that is one gift of being raised without faith despite its many drawbacks.

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  4. So many good points here, Debi Sue. Any “god” who hates people is definitely a figment of someone’s imagination. I might add one more false god to your list: “Indulgent Grandpa God.” He’s the one who doesn’t care how you live your life. He’ll forgive you of everything, with or without repentance. He will ignore or wink at sin, and there are never any consequences. (No reason why you should have to learn from your mistakes.) He’s happy with you and will bless you, whether you choose to live for Him or go your own way.

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  5. As much as I respect you and Pete as those Christians whose actions actually reflect the teachings of the second Bible, aka the New Testament, I often wonder why you have not taken what seems to me to be the logical next step – i.e. if we see in modern Christianity the recreation of God in the image which best supports our personal or group bias, and especially the ease with which it occurs, why is it not equally easy to see the same bias in past iterations of the Xtian God – or for that matter ALL gods?

    The angry God you first describe is the same one that I was taught to FEAR (as promoted by the elderly ladies in long black dresses). As a small child, the schizophrenic portrayal of a loving parent embodied in the same murderous perpetrator as the god who killed everyone on earth in The Flood, or the supposedly loving creator who casually stood aside for the Holocaust and a thousand other genocides, crusades and plagues seemed from a very young age to be inconsistent with the god of the Beatitudes, and the coexistence of the various New Testament god-avatars with the Angry God of Judaeo-Christian-Islamic history, let alone the ease with which the followers of this supposed monotheism have morphed their image of God into a polytheistic Trinity always struck me as logically inconsistent with the seemingly universal insistence of every Religion that their god/gods is/are both eternal – and more importantly – universal.

    In 200,000 years, humans have described thousands of gods – every single one of them both universal and true.

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    • For me, the idea that all our planet’s millions of life forms came from a Big Bang that came from absolutely nothing is more of an intellectual stretch than the idea that there had to be a Creator behind this intricate universe. So believing in a Creator does make intellectual sense for me. But I also struggle with the theodicy issues you describe. What I do know is that both the progressive and conservative camps in our country seem equally busy creating “in our own image” gods that only seem to be adding to the nasty polarization we’re experiencing in our country right now.


  6. “No mere human being, including me, will ever have a corner on Ultimate Truth.” This might be a good poster for legacy church foyers, but I doubt any will ever use it. 😉. Maranatha, dear sister. He will probably have a LOT to teach all of us.

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  7. Good one! Made me think: I have a *lot* of trouble with that too! When I was a teenager, I had an image of God that was an awful lot like an Episcopal bishop. A nice old man wearing a purple vest, a benign old fellow who had good intentions but didn’t really have a lot of bearing on my daily life.

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